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Why I Love Self Help / Pillow Talk

Here’s the blog post with some generic ‘I love Self Help’ imagery and (more importantly) the list of books I’d recommend you give a listen
http://wp.me/p2vhli-6fl

I subscribe to audible and have re-listened to the books I’ve bought so often that it feels worth the cash to me. If you don’t mind the inconvenience, however you can actually find a bunch of audiobooks on YouTube for free

*probably a little bit illegal so don’t tell anyone I told you that

You can also get a month free trial (so basically one free book) from audible here if you want to give it a whirl – http://fave.co/2CLDzKq

*I am not sponsored by audible but that IS an affiliate link

Hopefully you guys enjoyed the first one of these, I really enjoyed filming it and can’t wait to get stuck in to some other topics!

If you have any suggestions or requests, let me know.

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Comments

Lydmakeup says:

Yesss!! I read and re read these kind of books (there has been many!) almost as a mantra and to keep things fresh in my head/ keep me mindful…especially from an anxiety point of view for me personally. I like Sarah Knight's books too, but if there's one book you buy/ read this year…it's based around anxiety but has lots of elements of self help that you could take away from it…
Owning it – your bullsh*t free guide to living with anxiety by Irish writer Caroline Foran. Never has a book resonated so much! It was and is (I mark particular pages and dip in and out of it constantly) a real lightbulb moment for me. Out of all I've read over the years, this one is the most helpful by far 🙂

Kayleigh Jane says:

I was wondering, what are your thoughts on mindfulness? I am currently doing quite a bit of reading about it and wondered your opinion 🙂

rhidiscovers says:

LOVE THIS!!!

Annie Jones says:

I'm exactly the same! I literally can't get to sleep at night I'm wide awake! 😒😒

Beautifully Scientific says:

I love your Pjs! x

Michelle Jones says:

I really like this kind of video hun! In terms of books a really good one I found was katie pipers second book as it talks about her dating in her 20s and i had a lot of similar experiences regardless of her scars and experiences since that happened it was just the challenges life brings as a professional in london was really relate-able.

I also really like reading psychologies magazine as its full of inspiration and good advice.

Online i sometimes watch a whole playlist of tedtalks. They may be on random things im not specifically looking to find out more about but i always take something away from them!

Thats a lot i know but hopefully someone finds these useful! X

Lauren Bowden says:

So pleased you’re doing this again x

L1382 says:

I would recommend Lean In, The Confidence Code, Quiet and Gretchen Rubin's books (The Happiness Project etc – as someone else mentioned, she also hosts a good podcast).

ka boom says:

Any recs on an assertiveness book? It's something I really need to work on as I often find people thinking my opinions and choices don't matter.

Deborah Blacoe says:

This is a great video Khila. You talk so much sense. I’m not into self help, but as you say it comes to us even when we don’t know it. I have been through five years of hell. The one thing which got me through it is that I kept saying to myself “this too shall pass”. And it all has. Everything that I had to deal with, all the bad is now over. Nothing lasts forever. Even when death of a loved one is involved, the pain will ease with time. It will never go, but the force of it will pass.

Thursday's Fae says:

Great video! I looooooove self-help books and biographies too. I haven’t read any for a while though. The Year of Yes sounds amazing!

Shaun Nolan says:

Year of Yes is the BEST!! Love that book! I even bought the corresponding journal that matches the book lol!

Rose Dursley says:

Can’t beat a bit of RHONY😍

Fiona Thomas says:

On the self-help vibe I would definitely read Big Magic if you haven’t already. I found it’s been great for giving me confidence in my ability as a creative person. For memoirs, I love Ctrl Alt Delete by Emma Gannon and Mad Girl by Bryoney Gordon. Loved the video and I love self help!

Tina Conn says:

Great video. I am looking for a good book to listen to at the moment. I am not normally one to struggle with finding a good audiobook but this month I am. A big part of me wanted something self help but the last couple I listened to bored me to tears and I don't want to waste an audible credit. I am off to check out your list.

Mum Of the Guys says:

Great idea to bring this back! Loving your videos lately. I agree 100% with you. You can learn so much from other people's exeperiences and life choices. I do listen to 'What's the tee?' Which is Rupaul's podcast. I find it very interesting as is full of their anecdotes and life experiences while still being funny, entertaining and relatable.

Rock Chick 5150 Forever says:

Absolutely loving your whole new look on the channel… It's fresh and funky and totally different…. Also a big fan of the housewives…. Looking forward to your next vlog… Xo

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